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Warren Buffett’s Strategy for Effective Client Meetings
Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
Last week I spoke to an investor who got a call from his advisor’s assistant about scheduling a time to review his portfolio.
“I had the same reaction as when I get a call from my dentist’s office” said this investor, whose account was worth over $1 million at the end of 2010. “I recognize it’s important and something that I have to do, but also know it’s not likely to be pleasant, so put it off as long as I can.”
For many clients, the regrettable reality is that meeting with their advisor is no longer an uplifting experience. Instead of anticipating meetings with enthusiasm, they look to meetings with foreboding. Instead of walking away optimistic about possibilities, they leave burdened down by limitations
This situation is unhealthy and unsustainable for both clients and for advisors. Here are three steps to make client meetings a more positive experience, including an idea borrowed from Warren Buffett.
Step one: Be upbeat
For many advisors, the challenge of creating positive client meetings starts with being positive yourself. Unless you’re upbeat, there’s no chance that your clients will be.
Markets like we’ve seen of late can obviously make this a challenge, but that doesn’t make this less of a priority. Being positive doesn’t mean that you’re oblivious to the challenges we’re facing — clients are looking for realistic optimism, not someone with a “don’t worry be happy” view of the world.
In January 2009, I wrote about 12 ways to stay positive. Some sample strategies:
- Start by recognizing how important this is; being positive is the necessary first step to effective interactions with clients
- Exercise at the start of the day to give you a boost; even a short brisk walk can help
- Find ways to fight fatigue and renew energy during the day; get some fresh air at lunch, and throughout the day take energy boosting snacks like fruit
- Take short breaks; schedule a short walk outside between client meetings
- Be alert to signs that your energy level is dropping; before making a call or going into a meeting, take 30 seconds to focus on lifting your mood
- Seek out positive colleagues who give you energy, avoid negative ones who suck it away
Step two: Look past the bad news
It’s hard to maintain a positive outlook when you’re drowning in a sea of negative headlines.
When meeting with clients, start by acknowledging the real challenges faced by global economies.
Don’t let the gloom wear you and your client down. Introduce some offsetting good news. For example, point to three or four quality companies whose prices have been beaten down and shift the focus of the conversation to the value in recognized market leaders like Shoppers Drug Mart, TD Bank or Telus in Canada and McDonalds, Nestle or Wal-Mart outside Canada.
Step three: Focus on what you can control
Warren Buffett is a name who inspires confidence among average investors; look at what happened to Bank of America’s share price after his investment was announced. When he discusses the performance of Berkshire Hathaway in his annual report and his investor meeting each spring, he never mentions the share price, focusing instead on its book value. In essence, he changes the scorecard by which his performance is measured, shifting from share price to something he has more control over.
Advisors should try to do the same. You obviously have to talk about what’s happened to client portfolios, but need to go beyond that to talk about things which you can influence. For example, you can set a goal of a 3% annual cash return from your client’s portfolio, better than what they’ll get on GICs, and as part of your conversation, talk about their cash flow in the recent period versus that goal.
Or you can talk about the monthly income that clients will receive in retirement from all sources of income, based on today’s portfolio and some conservative assumptions on future performance and compare it to the base case needs in their financial plan. Of course, the market decline means that their projected monthly income will be down compared to what it would have been at the start of the year, but depending on how much of a buffer they had in January, their projected income may still be above their base needs.
If there is a shortfall, chances are that it will be less than clients fear. At least you can have an open conversation about the options to close the gap, reminding clients that if future performance is better than the assumptions, these may not be needed. Again, your goal is to focus on things you can control.
One final note; I’ve written in the past about the research showing that the most positive impact from vacations doesn’t come from the experience itself or the positive memories afterwards, but rather the process of looking forward to them. The implication is clear; in addition to periodic longer vacations to recharge our batteries, we should have lots of shorter, more frequent holidays, say a four-day weekend away once a quarter.
As part of your strategy to stay positive, schedule these short holidays — and encourage your clients to do the same. That way, at the end of your meeting, you’ll be able to briefly compare notes with your client not only on recent trips, but also those that are coming up.
And for anyone interested, here’s a link to that 2009 article on ten tips to stay positive http://www.clientinsights.ca/article/ten-tips-for-motivation-in-2009
Last week I spoke to an investor who got a call from his advisor’s assistant about scheduling a time to review his portfolio.
“I had the same reaction as when I get a call from my dentist’s office” said this investor, whose account was worth over $1 million at the end of 2010. “I recognize it’s important and something that I have to do, but also know it’s not likely to be pleasant — so put it off as long as I can.”
For many clients, the regrettable reality is that meeting with their advisor is no longer an uplifting experience. Instead of anticipating meetings with enthusiasm, they look to meetings with foreboding. Instead of walking away optimistic about possibilities, they leave burdened down by limitations
This situation is unhealthy and unsustainable for both clients and for advisors. Here are three steps to make client meetings a more positive experience, including an idea borrowed from Warren Buffett.
Step one: Be upbeat
For many advisors, the challenge of creating positive client meetings starts with being positive yourself. Unless you’re upbeat, there’s no chance that your clients will be.
Markets like we’ve seen of late can obviously make this a challenge — but that doesn’t make this less of a priority. Being positive doesn’t mean that you’re oblivious to the challenges we’re facing — clients are looking for realistic optimism, not someone with a “don’t worry be happy” view of the world.
In January 2009, I wrote about 12 ways to stay positive. Some sample strategies:
- Start by recognizing how important this is — being positive is the necessary first step to effective interactions with clients
- Exercise at the start of the day to give you a boost — even a short brisk walk can help
- Find ways to fight fatigue and renew energy during the day — get some fresh air at lunch, and throughout the day take energy boosting snacks like fruit
- Take short breaks — schedule a short walk outside between client meetings
- Be alert to signs that your energy level is dropping — before making a call or going into a meeting, take 30 seconds to focus on lifting your mood.
- Seek out positive colleagues who give you energy, avoid negative ones who suck it away
Step two: Look past the bad news
It’s hard to maintain a positive outlook when you’re drowning in a sea of negative headlines.
When meeting with clients, start by acknowledging the real challenges faced by global economies.
But don’t let the gloom wear you and your client down — introduce some offsetting good news. For example, point to three or four quality companies whose prices have been beaten down — and shift the focus of the conversation to the value in recognized market leaders like Shoppers Drug Mart, TD Bank or Telus in Canada and McDonalds, Nestle or WalMart outside Canada.
Step three: Focus on what you can control
Warren Buffett is a name who inspires confidence among average investors — look at what happened to Bank of America’s share price after his investment was announced. When he discusses the performance of Berkshire Hathaway in his annual report and his investor meeting each spring, he never mentions the share price, focusing instead on its book value. In essence, he changes the scorecard by which his performance is measured, shifting from share price to something he has more control over.
Advisors should try to do the same. You obviously have to talk about what’s happened to client portfolios, but need to go beyond that to talk about things which you can influence. For example, you can set a goal of a 3% annual cash return from your client’s portfolio, better than what they’ll get on GICs — and as part of your conversation, talk about their cash flow in the recent period versus that goal.
Or you can talk about the monthly income that clients will receive in retirement from all sources of income, based on today’s portfolio and some conservative assumptions on future performance — and compare it to the base case needs in their financial plan. Of course, the market decline means that their projected monthly income will be down compared to what it would have been at the start of the year, but depending on how much of a buffer they had in January, their projected income may still be above their base needs.
And if there is a shortfall, chances are that it will be less than clients fear — and at least you can have an open conversation about the options to close the gap, reminding clients that if future performance is better than the assumptions, these may not be needed. Again, your goal is to focus on things you can control.
One final note. I’ve written in the past about the research showing that the most positive impact from vacations doesn’t come from the experience itself or the positive memories afterwards, but rather the process of looking forward to them. The implication is clear — in addition to periodic longer vacations to recharge our batteries, we should have lots of shorter, more frequent holidays, say a four-day weekend away once a quarter.
As part of your strategy to stay positive, schedule these short holidays — and encourage your clients to do the same. That way, at the end of your meeting, you’ll be able to briefly compare notes with your client not only on recent trips, but also those that are coming up.
And for anyone interested, here’s a link to that 2009 article on ten tips to stay positive http://www.clientinsights.ca/article/ten-tips-for-motivation-in-2009

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Are Your Client Meetings Like Going to the Dentist?
Thursday, September 8th, 2011
Last week I spoke to an investor who got a call from his advisor’s assistant about scheduling a time to review his portfolio.
“I had the same reaction as when I get a call from my dentist’s office” said this investor, whose account was worth over $1 million at the end of 2010. “I recognize it’s important and something that I have to do, but also know it’s not likely to be pleasant — so put it off as long as I can.”
For many clients, the regrettable reality is that meeting with their advisor is no longer an uplifting experience. Instead of anticipating meetings with enthusiasm, they look to meetings with foreboding. Instead of walking away optimistic about possibilities, they leave burdened down by limitations
This situation is unhealthy and unsustainable for both clients and for advisors. Here are three steps to make client meetings a more positive experience, so that they’re not seen as akin to a visit to the dentist.
Step one: Be upbeat
For many advisors, the challenge of creating positive client meetings starts with being positive yourself. Unless you’re upbeat, there’s no chance that your clients will be.
Markets like we’ve seen of late can obviously make this a challenge — but that doesn’t make this less of a priority. Being positive doesn’t mean that you’re oblivious to the challenges we’re facing — clients are looking for realistic optimism, not someone with a “don’t worry be happy” view of the world.
In January 2009, I wrote about 12 ways to stay positive. Some sample strategies:
- Start by recognizing how important this is — being positive is the necessary first step to effective interactions with clients
- Exercise at the start of the day to give you a boost — even a short brisk walk can help
- Find ways to fight fatigue and renew energy during the day — get some fresh air at lunch, and throughout the day take energy boosting snacks like fruit
- Take short breaks — schedule a short walk outside between client meetings
- Be alert to signs that your energy level is dropping — before making a call or going into a meeting, take 30 seconds to focus on lifting your mood.
- Seek out positive colleagues who give you energy, avoid negative ones who suck it away
Step two: Look past the bad news
It’s hard to maintain a positive outlook when you’re drowning in a sea of negative headlines.
When meeting with clients, start by acknowledging the real challenges faced by global economies.
But don’t let the gloom wear you and your client down — introduce some offsetting good news. For example, point to three or four quality companies whose prices have been beaten down — and shift the focus of the conversation to the value in recognized market leaders like Shoppers Drug Mart, TD Bank or Telus in Canada and McDonalds, Nestle or WalMart outside Canada.
Step three: Focus on what you can control
Warren Buffett is a name who inspires confidence among average investors — look at what happened to Bank of America’s share price after his investment was announced. When he discusses the performance of Berkshire Hathaway, he never mentions the share price — rather he focuses on its book value. In essence, he points to something he can control.
Advisors should try to do the same. You obviously have to talk about what’s happened to client portfolios, go beyond that to talk about things which are in your control. For example, you can set a goal of a 3% annual cash return from your client’s portfolio, better than what they’ll get on GICs — and as part of your conversation, talk about their cash flow in the recent period versus that goal.
One final note. I’ve written in the past about the research showing that the most positive impact from vacations doesn’t come from the experience itself or the positive memories afterwards, but rather the process of looking forward to them. The implication is clear — in addition to periodic longer vacations to recharge our batteries, we should have lots of shorter, more frequent holidays, say a four-day weekend away once a quarter.
As part of your strategy to stay positive, schedule these short holidays — and encourage your clients to do the same. That way, at the end of your meeting, you’ll be able to briefly compare notes with your client not only on recent trips, but also those that are coming up.
And for anyone interested, here’s a link to that 2009 article on ten tips to stay positive http://www.clientinsights.ca/article/ten-tips-for-motivation-in-2009

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Ten Tips to be More Likeable
Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011
Ask advisors about what it takes to attract and retain clients and you’ll get answers like above average returns, preserving capital in tough markets and strong communication.
Those are all true — to these can be added delivering strong value and having clients trust your competence and integrity.
But there’s one other factor that’s often underestimated — and that’s likeability.
The importance of being likeable
I’ve heard clients say they’re a bit disappointed with recent returns or they haven’t heard from their advisor in the last while quite as much as they’d hoped — but they really like him or her and just don’t see themselves leaving.
Other times, I have talked to investors who selected a new advisor. These investors spoke to several advisors, all of whom seemed competent and interested — and ended up selecting the one they liked the most.
It’s really quite simple — everything else being equal, we like to work with people we like.
Some advisors believe that likeability is innate — we either have it or we don’t.
That’s true to a point. But there are specific things that advisors can do to be more likeable
Strategy one: Watch your attitude
The first thing that makes people likeable is being upbeat, positive and optimistic.
No one likes to spend time with someone who is constantly down in the dumps and sucks the energy out of every room.
In tough markets, it can be hard to stay positive. The best known researcher on strategies to improve optimism is psychologist Martin Seligman of the University of Pennsylvania.
Click here to read an article on his book Learned Optimism that appeared earlier this year.
http://www.strategicimperatives.ca/blog/?p=178
Strategy Two: Boost your energy
One way to convey a more positive attitude is to radiate positive energy — it’s hard to look upbeat if you’re slumped in a chair at the end of the day.
Exercise can play a big role in boosting energy — starting the day with a workout or a brisk walk can help.
And fresh air and sunshine can help as well. Even taking five or ten minutes before an important meeting to get some fresh air will increase your energy level.
Or you can do what one advisor did to be more upbeat when talking to clients on the phone. He put a sign on his wall with the two words “Be positive” — and began to talk standing up. Just by doing those two things, he raised his energy level on the phone.
Strategy Three: Smile
When going out to greet a client in the lobby, make a point of smiling. It may feel a bit funny initially — but it’s amazing the impact that doing this and this alone can have.
Not only will clients see you as more positive — but you’ll feel better as well.
Ultimately, the goal is to make smiling a habit — so you don’t have to do it consciously.
Strategy Four: Demonstrate interest
The next strategy is a simple one — and that’s to demonstrate real interest in the clients you’re talking to.
The best way to do that is to ask questions to get clients talking. The more questions you ask, the more clients will talk. Remember, when meeting with an existing or prospective client, the number one priority is always to ask questions to get clients engaged.
People who drone on about their views are the opposite of likeable — we all know paragons of pomposity who dominate every conversation, these are exactly the people everyone avoids at a party.
Strategy Five: Give your undivided attention
It’s not just good enough to get clients to talk — they have to feel listened to. You need to focus all of your attention on what they say. One way to do that is to make eye contact, looking away to make notes.
One of the things that’s been said about Bill Clinton is that when people talk to him, they feel that they have his undivided attention — for that moment or two, as far as he’s concerned they are the only people in the room. You want your clients to feel the same way.
Strategy Six: Make genuine compliments
Strategy six is to seek out opportunities to make genuine compliments.
The key is to be sincere — being phony will work against you. But looking for opportunities to say that I truly admire the job you’ve done with your kids, your house, your business, your commitment to charity — these will all make you more likeable.
One advisor I talked to said that in every meeting his goal is to make one genuine, sincere compliment — and has been struck by the positive response from clients.
Strategy Seven: Seek to help
Something else that makes advisors likeable is letting clients know you’re there to help — especially when there’s no revenue attached to it for you.
Let’s say a client says that her son has lost his job.
You have three choices.

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